You know, sometime I was thinking wether that I'm an introvert or extrovert. Hem, I guess I'll take the introvert one. You see, sometime I didn't like talking with other... Scratch that, I love talking with other, blabbering about the think I like, with someone I love, isn't it a sign of an introvert.
Well, those kind is doesn't really matter anyway. Beside, I'm just a quasi person, just a quasi inextrovert. Funny eh, but I believe there are more people like me in the world. You know? The grey zone, not white nor black, just a blend of those color. But, it doesn't really have to grey zone of black and white. It can also be a purple zone of blue and red, an oranges zone of red and yellow, or a green zone of blue and yellow. And there you go the three basic color l, TeeHee.
Putting asside the bending of the color, most people in the society have the tendency to become a quasi one. Rather, I would rather state that, I see no many persons in this time is at the pure zone. All introvert also sometime want to have a silent time with other, when some extrovert want some time together with just himself.
Human basically is a social organism. There is no human who can live by himself, just like stated at book "The Guidance of Life: All You Need in Two Pact." it's has been proved that there are no human that can live in seldom.
But, in the past society those kind of interactions describe like when you go to market to sell something, or go to faming to buy something. While that is the cass in the past, now is something that feel trivial in society nowadays.
Internet, phone, there many thing that can shrink the sense of distance incredibly. Yet, it also a device that can make a gap of human so great.
If you want to buy something, you can just by it online. If you want to sell something, well basically you don't have to sell something to gain money. And thus, the gap of human heart is growing more and more large.
And here come a wonderful solution, a savior called social media. A place to connect with other, or so what they say. It's true that you can get many friend count on the Facebook. You can get many follower count on the Twitter. Yeah, it's good, really good, you will famous in your classroon, you somehow feel like a riaju, and then you realize. I don't f#cking now those people. Buy the way, it's the cass for me.
I have a count of friend of thousand, but I don't f#cking remember who they are. I absolutely really sure, if it come to a real acquaintance of me it will down to three digit with first digits below 2. And if it come down to real friend it will come to two digits. It's not like I despise the idea of having an online friend. Because virtual world has become one of the society ground nowaday. It's not something wrong. It just "what the point if you don't get know to her/him in real life." It sure is great to have friend of the same hobby virtually just like the community of anime, manga, car, motorcycle, and much other stuff. So, the best way is to also know them in real world.
Wait a sec, look like I have loose from the point of my talk. This is what I want to talk.
There are may be an introvert with the skill to communicate greatly on a one on one conversation. There are may be an extrovert who can affect their surroundings by their charisma. There are maybe an introvert which so clingy on solitude to the point that he doesn't want to communicate with other. There are may be an extrovert which is so like to saying what they want to the point he doesn't look at other.
Whether is it, the problem is not because he is an introvert or extrovert. The most important thing is that you always be the way you are.
Just like Inaho who take dowbn Rayet heart by saying "Aku tidak perduli apakah kau orang bumi atau orang mars." Maka aku akan mengatakannya untuk menjatuhkan hatimu. "Aku tidak perduli apakah kau intro atau extro, aku menyukaimu karena kamu adalah kamu."
Though you is not you.
